When people are asked,
"What is your favourite time of the year?"
they usually respond with things like Christmas, Summer holidays, Birthdays, Easter.
But mine happens to be Lent. Yes you heard that right. I am talking about the 40 days and nights leading up to Easter, which is a time of fasting, prayer and alms-giving!
Now hear me out. It's not the religious aspect of it that gets me but rather the spiritual side.I love the whole idea of taking stock of your life, seeing what's going well and what needs improvement. People usually do this on New Year's Eve (which I do too). But resolutions don't last as we all know too well. This is because you can't just decide to change everything overnight and think you will be in the mindset to keep it up.
Research has shown that it takes at least 40 days for a new habit to become automatic.Enter Lent!
See, there's a reason why it's that length, pardon the pun!
I gave up sugar in my tea when I was about seven years of age and I never went back. I remember saving all the sweets that we'd get during Lent in a biscuit tin until we could eat them at Easter. I also remember my brother raiding my store one year and eating most of mine.
Lucky I'm not one to hold a grudge, eh John!!!
When I was living in Abu Dhabi I even loved Ramadan! If we Catholics think we have it hard, spare a thought for the Muslims.
Now we didn't have to observe it, per say, but of course we couldn't be seen to eat or drink in public during daylight hours. We could do what we wanted to in private.
I was talking about it to my Muslim friend. He said that not only could they not eat or drink from sunrise to sunset, but they also could not have "sexual relations" during those hours. I wanted to show how stoic we were in our religion and said that Catholics couldn't have sex AT ALL during Lent.
Well that was just a little white lie!
I asked what would happen if you couldn't help yourself and had sex during the day. In that case you had to feed three poor families for three days.
Well worth it.
Just lets say, I did my best to eradicate world hunger, by causing the poor to be fed!
How come Bob Geldof got a knighthood for his efforts and nothing for me!!!